Saturday, October 16, 2010

39 years of Commitment


Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. ~Simone Signoret


A good marriage is the union of two good forgivers.  -- Ruth Bell Graham


Today we celebrate 39 years of the commitment we made to God to be together until death do us part.   We have had our ups and downs over the years.  The ups have out weighed the downs.   Marriage is alot of work, but I think mainly it is commitment and forgiveness and alot of laughter.   In the marriage vows there should be a promise not only to love and honor, but to laugh together.  

We are combining corn today.  The Lord has blessed us with a beautiful sunny, warm day.  We had other plans, but the combiner could come today, so we combine--such is farming. 
 
This is post 98.  :)

20 comments:

  1. Congratulations--Your statement about combining corn today when you had other plans. As farm wives we learn early that the farm work must be done--it is part of our commitment to the farmers we married. We are only a couple years behind you. We have been married 36 years. Sometimes I think people give up too easily and don't think of the commitment they made before God. There are times we may not like our spouses very much. But, we still love them.
    When the combining is done--take some time for yourselves.

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  2. Congratulations! Yes, combining comes first...I learned that one very young!

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  3. Congratulations! Wishing you a very Happy Anniversary :-)

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  4. Happy Anniversary Janet to you and your beloved- Hope you find some special way to celebrate once the crops are in. My spouse and I will soon be married 30 years in December- time flies when you are having fun-
    98 posts wow- you are getting close to 100 - what a nice number.
    Regards,
    Anna

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  5. Congratulations! We celebrated our 35th this past summer and your right, marriage is a lot of work but so worth it. Have a wonderful day.

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  6. Congratulations and wishing you many more!

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  7. A Happy Anniversary to you and your best fellow! Being married to a railroader, I sometimes spent anniversaries and birthdays alone but there are things that you must do. What is important is being together most of the time and having the good times outweigh the not so good ones. We had 48 years together and were married 61 years ago. Time goes go by quickly. Bless you both! Carol

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  8. Happy anniversary, Janet and hubby! I hope you have many, many more together.

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  9. Happy Happy day to you both!!!
    Once the corn is in--you two have my permission to celebrate--ok!!!
    In the mean time--give a kitten or two a hug for me!!!
    hugs, Di

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  10. Congratulations! We've had similar anniversaries, but we are passionate about our lifestyle, and each other, and life is good! Hope you were able to take time out to watch the sunset together over the combine!

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  11. What a wonderful post. It is a lovely picture of you both!

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  12. You beat me by a few years :-) x x x
    My very best wishes and congratulations.
    Only 2 years by the way :-)

    Have a really great week xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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  13. Sincere best wishes to the happy couple. You still have the same smile and the same twinkling eyes, Janet.
    Here's to many more years together, always with more ups than downs.

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  14. Congratulations and best wishes! That is a wonderful milestone especially in this day and age. May you enjoy many more years together. Nola

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  15. Hope you had a lovely day together bringing in the corn.
    Love the photo of Peanuts babies.

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  16. Congratulations on 39 years. What an amazing accomplishment. I hope the combining went well and that you found some time to spend together. Mabye next year on your 40th anniversary you can find someone else to mind the combine!

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  17. Congratulations of celebrating an amazing milestone! Blessings to you both in the coming year...

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  18. How wonderful!!! Happy Anniversary!!

    You are both very lucky :)

    SheilaC

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